
Frequently Asked Questions
To make our initial communication and our time together as seamless and enjoyable as possible, I’ve compiled a list of frequently asked questions below. This guide is here to put you at ease and ensure our encounter is nothing short of exceptional.
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I warmly welcome respectful people of all backgrounds, identities, and abilities. If there’s anything I should be mindful of to support your comfort, just let me know… I’m a thoughtful hedonist, after all.
I’m especially drawn to the quietly confident, the kind who know how to move with charm, offer without asking, and make the room feel different just by being in it. Generosity, presence, and playful energy will always get you further... in more ways than one.
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For Sydney bookings, I don’t usually require ID, but a phone number is an absolute must. If we’re meeting at your hotel, I may need to call reception to confirm you’re checked in. For private residences, I’ll require a matching ID and proof of address for my safety.
For travel dates or international trips, I take things more seriously. I’ll need to verify your identity with a government-issued ID, a professional reference from another provider, and/or a verifiable workplace or professional presence. If we’re spending extended time together, it’s important I feel secure, and that you do too.
I reserve the right to request additional information if needed. Discretion is always mutual.
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Your first message sets the tone for everything that follows. I’m selective with who I see, so a little care in your introduction never goes unnoticed.
To help me plan something unforgettable, please include:
• Your name and age
• Preferred date & time
• Incall or outcall
• Type of booking (GFE or Luxury GFE)
• Desired duration (90 mins, 2 hours, etc.)
• Any special requests or details you’d like to share
• How and when it’s best to contact youPolished, complete inquiries always catch my eye. They tell me you know what you want, and that’s usually where the fun begins.
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Text or email is the best way to introduce yourself. Once your deposit is confirmed, I’m happy to hop on the phone if you'd like a taste of my voice before we meet.
You can reach me at:
💌 Email me
📱 +61 431 667 171If you’re emailing, please include your mobile number. I won’t text you unless you’ve asked me to, but I do need it for screening and planning. Without it, I can’t move forward.
If you don’t hear back right away, check your spam folder, especially if you use Gmail. Sometimes the good stuff gets lost.
This isn’t my full-time inbox, so replies aren’t instant. But if you’ve sent something thoughtful, rest assured I’ve seen it, and you’ll hear from me soon enough.
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If you haven’t heard back from me, there’s a good chance your message was too brief, too explicit, or just didn’t land as a genuine inquiry.
I respond when something feels aligned - respectful, detailed, and a little bit intriguing. That’s how things start on the right foot.
Want better odds? Be clear, be polite, and show me you’ve read enough to know what kind of woman you’re writing to.
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Discretion is just as important to me as it likely is to you. Being Aria is a private, very cherished part of my life, and I prefer to keep a little mystery intact.
Please do not ask me to send you a selfie before we meet. That would rather ruin the fun of being face in, wouldn’t it?
If you’re feeling unsure, I can only say this: I’m often told my face is my best feature. Some say it’s a sin that I keep it hidden. I call it a reward for those who show up ;) -
I only accept a handful of dates each week so I can arrive rested, present, and completely in my element.
For indulgent bookings like dinner dates or overnights, I recommend reaching out at least one to two weeks in advance to reserve your spot.
While I occasionally list myself as “Available Now,” I still appreciate at least three to four hours’ notice. Even spontaneity deserves a little preparation.
That said, you’re always welcome to try your luck, especially if you ask nicely xx
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I always arrive dressed with intention, elegant, discreet, and suggestive in all the right ways. If you'd prefer something more casual, fragrance free, or suited to a particular setting - feel free to let me know in advance. I’m happy to oblige when I can.
Specific outfit or lingerie requests are part of my Luxury GFE experiences. If it’s something I already own and it suits the mood, I’ll do my best to bring your vision to life.
And if there’s something you’d love to see me in, or slipping out of, you're more than welcome to gift it. Just ask for my sizing.
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A little thoughtfulness goes a long way. I appreciate you arriving fresh, calm, and ready to enjoy something that feels unhurried and electric. You’ll have time to shower and settle in when you arrive, I consider it part of the ritual.
Consideration
If we’re meeting in private, please place the consideration in an envelope somewhere visible at the start of our time together. For public dates, slipping it into a birthday card or your favorite book is a lovely touch. Subtle is sexy, having to ask is not.Timing
Life happens, but I may have plans after our time together. If you're running late, just let me know as soon as possible. Our time begins the moment we meet.If you'd like to extend, I’ll always do my best to say yes… if I’m available and the mood is right.
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I offer an experience that’s sensual, respectful, and attuned, and mutual care is part of that.
Outside of our time together, I ask that you treat this as a professional arrangement. If you'd like to see me again, I’m always happy to organize that through a proper booking.
Physically, I don’t offer unprotected sex, rough play, anal, COF, CIMWS, spitting, or anything that veers into degradation. These are non-negotiable.
I’m here for chemistry, not boundary-pushing. Respect me, and I promise, the pleasure will take care of itself.
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Your health and mine are non-negotiable. I do not offer unprotected sex under any circumstances.
Cleanliness is an essential part of feeling relaxed, comfortable, and desirable. A refreshing shower at the beginning of our time together is part of the experience, and my space is thoughtfully stocked with everything you might need, including mouthwash and toothpaste.
If you’d like to explore anal play (by pre-arrangement only), please feel free to ask me about proper preparation. A quick rinse won’t do the trick, and I’m happy to offer guidance discreetly.
Grooming is always appreciated. Short or clean-shaven tends to be more comfortable for both of us.
If you arrive with any visible infections, uncovered skin conditions, or open wounds, I’ll need to end our date and the full fee will still apply. Non-contagious conditions like vitiligo or similar are no problem, just let me know in advance, I’m always happy to accommodate.
A little self care goes a long way. Let’s keep things fresh, respectful, and deliciously enjoyable.
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Absolutely. Some of my favourite connections unfold slowly, over candlelit dinners, unhurried mornings, or weekends away where time doesn’t feel like it’s ticking.
If you're dreaming of a romantic overnight, a Fly Me To You rendezvous, or something ongoing, I’m open to exploring that with the right person.I’m passport-ready, suitcase-packed, and always curious about where chemistry might take us. For longer-term arrangements, I prefer to meet first… if the spark is there, we’ll know over dinner.
If you like to plan properly, you’ll find my travel and extended date etiquette just below.
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To make sure our extended time together feels seamless and deeply enjoyable, there are a few things I kindly ask:
For Fly Me To You bookings within 3 hours of Sydney, I require a minimum of 4 to 6 hours together, plus business class travel and accommodation.
For longer flights or international bookings, an overnight or one-day minimum applies.
Travel bookings require full payment of travel costs upfront, along with a 30% deposit to confirm our time together.
For bookings longer than 24 hours, I ask for a few essentials:
• At least two hours of private time each day to move my body, refresh, and reset
• Eight hours of uninterrupted sleep - beauty rest is a real thing
• No touching while I sleep, I promise I’m much more fun in the morningThese small things help me stay in my element, which means you get the very best version of me, too.
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Absolutely. I’m genuinely bisexual and love spending time with women, whether one-on-one or as part of a couple. As many of my reviews reflect, I’m a natural with couples and bring warmth, playfullness, and just the right amount of mischief. If you’re a couple, I promise to be the most fun and attentive third wheel you’ve ever invited in.
For couples bookings, I do ask to speak with both partners beforehand so everyone feels comfortable and excited.
For duos, I have a handful of exquisite girlfriends I adore playing with. If you’re curious, just ask who’s currently available to join. We’re very good at sharing.
And of course, I’m always open to meeting new providers if there’s someone you’ve been dreaming of seeing me with. You bring the fantasy, and I’ll bring the yes.
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I like to keep communication between bookings minimal, so that our time together feels intentional, immersive, and just a little addictive.
I usually respond during set admin hours, and I appreciate your patience in between.
If you're craving something more between visits, you're welcome to let me know. There may be something I can offer for that… but I prefer to save most of the good stuff for when we're face to face.
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Slow hands. Lingering eye contact. A man who knows how to take his time…
I love being kissed behind the neck, pulled closer by the hips, and told exactly what’s on your mind. I respond best to presence, when you're not performing, just wanting.
Whispers. Stillness. A hand in my hair.
I like when someone listens to the spaces between words.
Touches me like they’ve been thinking about it all day.
The rest? That’s better explored face to face…
Deposits & Cancellations
All bookings require a deposit to secure our time together, even if we’ve met before. This ensures mutual respect and allows me to show up fully prepared, with care and intention.
Deposits are non-refundable, except in the rare case that I need to cancel. If that ever happens, you will receive a full refund or the option to reschedule - whichever feels right for you. Fair is fair
With enough notice, Sydney deposits may be transferred once to a future date. Due to the high cost of travel, tour deposits are not transferable under any circumstances.
I understand life doesn’t always go to plan, and while I aim to be accommodating, a great deal of care goes into preparing for our time together. All I ask is that you offer the same consideration for my time that I offer to yours.
Please use the exact amount and reference I provide. Payments that don’t match may be considered gifts - and while I do love those, it’s best we keep things seamless.
Deposit Structure
Sydney:
A 20% deposit is typically required. With more than 24 hours' notice, your deposit may be transferred once.
Cancellations within 24 hours will forfeit the deposit.
Same day cancellations or no-shows require the full fee to be paid.
Interstate & International Tours:
A 30% deposit is required. Deposits are non-transferable.
Cancellations within 48 hours require the full fee.
By paying your deposit, you agree to these terms.
*** I know policies aren’t the sexiest part of this, but honoring the deposit gives me the peace of mind to show up relaxed, glowing, and in exactly the kind of mood you’re hoping for. It’s my favourite way to know you’re serious and to start the anticipation early xx
What deposit payment methods do you accept?
BeemIt (preferred – Australia only): Owned by CBA, NAB, and Westpac, BeemIt is instant, discreet, and easy to use. You can create an account at https://www.beemit.com.au/
Please contact me for my username.Bank transfer: You can deposit via EFT into my Australian business account (CBA), or visit a branch or smart ATM for added privacy. No personal details are required — just use the reference I give you.
Gift vouchers: Select gift cards are accepted. Please contact me for a list of preferred stores.
Cryptocurrency: Bitcoin and Ethereum are accepted. Contact me for my wallet QR code.
Credit card: A discreet payment link can be sent to your mobile. A 5% surcharge applies to most cards, and 10% for AMEX. I will also require a matching ID for verification.
Unforeseen Events & Travel Disruptions
If something outside of our control - like border closures, natural disasters, or major travel disruptions - prevents us from meeting, I’ll always do my best to reschedule our time together.
Any deposit already paid will be credited toward a future date. While I don’t offer refunds in these situations, your booking is never lost, only delayed. Let’s just hope we don’t need this clause. But if we do, I’ll be ready to work with you to make it right.
If you have made it this far, I already like you. Let us make it worth your while. And if you have a quick question before booking, feel free to reach out. I am always happy to clarify.
With anticipation,
Aria May x